Entering into BDSM and kink knowing your and your lovers Love Language ups the game BIG TIME. You can enter into deeper, more sacred and fun play when you know each others love language and kink.
For those of you with Words of Affirmation as your love language here are some tips on what your kink and BDSM play might look like…
Being vocal, expressive and using erotic love language will be a major turn-on.
If you're a sadist, a masochist who enjoys degradation these words take on a degrading favour.
If you're Dom and your sub has words of affirmation as a love language you will use words that help them surrender, trust and deepen into the experience. Tell them how pleased you are with them.
If you're a Sub and your Dom has words, you will seek approval or tell them how good kind they are.
Express desires.
Words of appreciation and gratitude.
Aftercare is important and reassures them how well they went and how exactly they can take care of themselves.
Games, Poems, Cards or fantasy and
where you're using words to narrate the play.
