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PHYSICAL TOUGH LOVE LANGUAGE & BDSM


Physical touch is a common love language so coupling this with BDSM offers a really sacred experience for any Kinkster or anyone who is just entering into the world of kink and wanting to spice things up.


Sacred Kink offers such a deep connection and a spiritual experience that opens up our consciousness where we enter into new realms of what is available to us.


Combining physical touch with kink really depends on your kink profile as to where you would take this, but here are some examples.


You can take this as far as your imagination allows…


A Dom would use this a lot to dictate, reassure and guide the Sub.

A Sub would use small and suggestive movements to seek, approve or appease the Dom.

A Brat/ Brat Tamer would tease and use edging to play with the edge.

A Kinkster would use the body as clay and mould, play and go where the arousal and fun is.

A Sadist would spank with the hands,

A Primal would use raw animistic gestures and movements, teeth, tongue, claws….


You might use sensory play.


Aftercare would ideally have a touch-point, nurturing gestures to relax the nervous system and ensure they feel safe. If physical touch isn't possible use words to express and activate a moment or memory from the play session or if I could touch you right now I would…


TOYS FOR THIS PLAY


Think- cuffs, floggers, rope play and sensory play.









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